Manifest Your Potential
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Is a Lack of Money Holding You Back From Your Dream Job or Business?
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Question 3b: Now look over your list. Can you identify the kind of obstacle this reason represents? If so, write it down in the 3b column. This will help you understand the form the solution will need to take.
(For example, if you are not qualified to do what you love, you need to look for the real reason. In this example, say that you lack experience. When you look up the obstacle type you realize it is a bar that is encouraging you to stretch and grow and get out of the rut of doing the same thing every day. The solution to a lack of experience is its opposite -- sufficient work experience to be well qualified for your dream job. That means you need to gain more relevant experience and the way to get it is with some new job assignments, a transfer or new job. In this example, the first step might be to take your boss out to lunch and so you can talk about ways to increase your industry and work experience. That should cost between $15 - $50 depending on the type of work you do and your boss.)
Question 3c: Can you identify the solution to each reason or problem? If so, write it next to the reason. As an example, if you lack something, the solution would be to acquire it. If you have too much of something, you would want to decrease it or change it. If you are not sure, see if the opposite of the problem becomes the solution.
Question 3d: Looking now at both what is holding you back and the solution, can you identify what you need to bring about the solution? For example,is it gaining the confidence to face your fears, a change in jobs to get the experience you need, or going back to school to develop your skills and expertise? Write your answers in the column provided.
Question 3e: Look at what you need to do to solve each problem. Do you need any money to do it? If so, how much do you need? Write your answers in the column provided.
Look over your top ten reasons again, and especially at "what is needed" to bring about the changes you need to start doing your dream job.
Often we see money as the solution to every problem because money is an all purpose way to buy ourselves into and out of situations. However, many times what we need cannot be bought in any store. Instead, it comes from finding the solutions within ourselves and taking action to start overcoming the obstacles we face.
Question 4: Look at each of the reasons you listed above. Can you identify the "why" behind each reason -- what is the source or originating cause? For example, if you lack the experience you need, is the real "behind the scenes" reason due to a bad job choice, inadequate planning, or a lack of confidence? Write your answers below.
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These are tough questions intended to help you get real about how much you understand about your financial needs and issues. They challenge you to see how much you know, and whether you are just guessing or have a solid idea of what your real needs are.
Question 1: Many people do not take the time to really think about what is holding them back. Often the pain and frustration is so great that the first or most obvious answer is all they have the patience and energy to focus on. So "money" becomes the major culprit. But many times money and the things it can buy are not the only things holding us back.
Question 2: Taking a few minutes to stop and make a list begins a process that can immediately start to help you figure out the problem. It not only can expand your understanding, but also give a way to start using the emotional energy you have to solve the problem. The first step in any battle is to know your enemy or obstacle.
Question 3: By making this list, you flip your focus from the problem of what you lack to the solution of what you need. And money takes its rightful place, as the solution instead of the stumbling block.
Question 4: Tracing the source of each problem or reason you are stuck is important. By seeing how the problem arose or was created, we get hints about how to solve it. You also want to make sure that you solve the source of the problem and not just the current symptom. The last thing you want to be doing is continually facing the same obstacle in a different form throughout your life.
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