How Do I Find My Love Style?
By searching for it ... within yourself and the way you express and share love with everything around you. The secret to your path to love is really ... all around you ... in all the things you do now to express your love, affection, caring and compassion.
So what if you are saying to yourself ... "I have no idea how I do that".
Or worse, "Isn't it just about buying flowers and candy on Valentine's Day?"
Take a moment and think about it. In all the Great Love Stories, no one is following the cliques -- they are setting them. In Say Anything, he stands outside her house and raises a boom box above his head ... sear.ana.ding her with the music from his heart and soul {and that image is seared into the memories of most people who experienced the film}. In another, he puts her on a plane to help save the world from World War II. And in another, he winds his way through a party to find her, stays behind when the fort will be taken by enemy hands, and jumps off a 200 foot waterfall to be able to rescue her.
Each "rose" to the occasion -- rather than giving roses. Each shared the bitter sweetness of their life and love -- instead of sharing a box of chocolates. They didn't just talk about going to the Moon -- they went there and offered their loves the ride of their life -- one filled not with hearts and flowers on a Valentine's card -- but the real thing -- their heart flowering into an extraordinary love that could thrive on the ups and downs of real life.
So, if you are still reading this, the question I have is ... do you really want to live a life filled with incredible, breathtaking moments of love, laughter and delight? Not everyone does. Frankly, it takes work. And that work starts with learning more about yourself. Which isn't always easy ... but to me it is fun. Egomaniacs aside, isn't it kind of fun to figure out who you are, and how to get the girl or guy of your dreams?
So, the fun and the work starts here ...learning about your preferred style of expressing and sharing love. Take a moment to read about the nine love paths I have come up with -- based on the nine life paths. You may find that one perfectly fits you ... or that you are a combination of several. You might even find that your style changes upon who you are with ... your kids may get one style ... your friends another ... and your lover a third .. and your soul mate all of them.
Ready to learn more?
