Task: Understand Why
Relationships Fail
If you have just had a major breakup -- with your best friend, your spouse, or anyone you have cared for -- you might be wondering why relationships fail.
They do for lots of reasons ... but there here a few ideas that may help you understand "the why" behind the breakup.
Usefulness & Pleasure
Like it or not, many relationships are based on their usefulness and pleasure. It sounds kinda harsh, but this simple truth can open your eyes to what is really going on in many relationships.
Growing In different Directions
We grow up and mature at different rates and in different ways. Sometimes the people we love are moving slower than we are ... or faster ... or taking a different path in life. They decide they want something different than we do, or have values that lead them in a new direction.
Choosing Destiny over Fate
Soe.m.times it is a matter of choice ... of choosing to evolve beyond the fate our circumstances have in store for us ... and go after a destiny that irresistibly beckons us to get busy becoming who we were meant to be instead of settling. The search for success, enlightenment or to follow our hearts to a more extraordinary life can mean leaving behind those we love.
